A Window is Where the Wall is Absent
The life impulse to express and to connect arises in me and in all of us. This blog is a celebration of these life impulses. Please feel free to join in the conversation or to just visit. There is a Family Photo Album beneath the posts so you can "meet" my family and I. Welcome!
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The Cure for Boredom
Is reality boring?
Is the real boring?
No.
Boredom is a mind-state that is symptomatic of disconnection from reality.
Boredom arises when contact with the real is lost.
The true cure for boredom is not evasion through distraction and entertainment (this only temporarily masks boredom).
The cure for boredom is contact with the real.
Slowing down
and waking up
enough to touch
the reality of life here
- in the body,
in sense perceptions,
in the vast presence
of the dharmakaya.
Is the real boring?
No.
Boredom is a mind-state that is symptomatic of disconnection from reality.
Boredom arises when contact with the real is lost.
The true cure for boredom is not evasion through distraction and entertainment (this only temporarily masks boredom).
The cure for boredom is contact with the real.
Slowing down
and waking up
enough to touch
the reality of life here
- in the body,
in sense perceptions,
in the vast presence
of the dharmakaya.
Friday, June 28, 2013
Psychiatry is Changing
Attended a stunning six day workshop titled "Breath, Body, Mind" taught by two psychiatrists (a husband-wife team): Dr. Richard Brown and Dr. Patricia Gerbarg. I highly recommend attending one of their trainings if you have a chance, and checking out their books and website.
http://www.breath-body-mind.com/index.php

http://www.breath-body-mind.com/index.php
Labels:
breathing,
Dr. Patricia Gerbarg,
Dr. Richard Brown,
psychiatry,
qigong
Monday, February 20, 2012
To Notice is to Make Conscious
Objects and non-objects can be noticed. To notice a non-object is to notice the noticing itself.
To notice a non-object is to notice the motionless space in which everything exists. Context and content are an inseparble balance.
Obsession with objects is the inevitable result of not noticing the non-object realm of spacious being.
Noticing is different from acquiring.
Noticing refers to what is already here.
Acquiring refers to what is lacking and therefore sought.
Noticing is an openness to what had previously been unseen.
The wealth of space in this moment can be noticed and made conscious.
In the flood of present wealth, the old compulsion to acquire loosens its grip.
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
A miraculous field
"Never bother naming an emotion again.
Just feel the energy of it." Scott Kiloby
We think it's the emotion that hurts, when what actually
causes the most pain is the word, the label, the name, the
story we put on the emotion.
An emotion experienced nonverbally is actually quite benign,
even wondrous- one of the many colors of the rainbow of
emotional experience.
Try it and see for yourself, experiments are fun. It is
possible to meet emotional experience with silent interest
rather than fear.
It's so depressing to label sadness as sadness, but without
the label... it's clear and sweet.
No emotion is an enemy, it's just a transient energy pattern
in the miraculous field of being.
~
Gratitude to Scott Kiloby for posting the above words on Facebook. Scott's website is http://kiloby.com/
Labels:
emotions,
experiments,
naming,
pain,
Scott Kiloby,
silence
Monday, June 13, 2011
What is the well that never runs dry?
"Have you ever noticed that the present moment never abandons you?
It's the well that never runs dry." Sara Exley
You are this moment, you are the well that never runs dry.
~
Gratitude to Sara Exley of Present Moment Parenting: http://lawofattractionparentingparty.com/
Gratitude for photo: http://springvalley.govoffice.com/
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